Amazing site, just give it a try and be open minded!
The site is amazing place to meet people. I have been a member on and off for 15 years now and have made some friends for life. I recommend it to all my single friends.
I am not really someone to leave reviews, but I have noticed quite a few slatting reviews, which all appear to be from men so I wanted to leave a review from a women's prospective.
I have signed up to many similar sites over the years and this company must be doing something right as I keep coming back.
Like any sites, you will meet a share of timewasters, just out to chat online with no real interest in meeting or claiming to be someone they are not. This is very simple to stop.
Firstly be up front about you and what you are looking for.
Second, video chat earlier on to establish who you are actually chatting to and if possible arrange a quick coffee in a public area. That way if the person doesn't turn up, its not an issue and if they turn up and have aged by 20 years you can easily have a coffee and say no thanks and leave.
As a single female I have had my fair share of issues with pushy single men or men demanding that I give them my phone number or address to prove I am genuine. Well firstly if you read my reviews you would see several comments posted by people I have meet off the site and also admin validation confirming I am the person in my photos. On a daily basis my mailbox is overflowing with messages (I know its a good problem to have), then because I haven't logged in and replied that day, I get another message calling me fake or a timewaster. The reality is I work and have a life outside the site, so I may not login daily and I may not response to your message for a week (depends on how busy I am).
Now I have tried to save time by using the pre-composed messages such as "No, thank you are not what I am looking for" etc only to get a response then calling me a bot. Firstly I am not a bot, just using the features the site provides to be polite in my rejection. Sorry if you are unhappy with this.
If I haven't replied then sending me another 10 messages is not going to get my attention, it gets my back up. Just wait, I will response when I am ready to.
Be respectful, sending rude or abusive messages is not going to get you a meet.
When you drop a message to a women, be polite, tell me a little about yourself, what you doing for a living, what you like to do in your free time etc, you are more likely to get a positive response from me.
Most of all just because I reply doesn't mean I am going to drop everything to meet you. I may not arrange to meet you for months but getting pushy isn't going to speed it up, it will have the opposite effect of putting the brakes on.
The site is amazing tool to meeting people, but please remember to be respectful like you would in the real world, hiding behind your keyboard is no excuse or because someone else had not replied to you in a timely manner doesn't make us all fakes/scammers or bots.
Just remember we are human and have feeling and for every female on the site there are numerous men vying for our attention. I have met some amazing men, women and couples over the years. The site is your oyster so treat it with respect as well as the people you are contacting. The site has a 24 hour 365 days support team who are lovely and always available to catch up for a quick chat whether that's in the chatroom or via the contact us links. I have always found them to be very helpful and when I have encountered issues, they have been very quick to response and deal with situations. The site for me is a safe haven, to meet people and engage with each other.
If you haven't given it a go, what are you waiting on. You get out of it what you put in and remember its not an instant thing (it is for some members) but the vast majority of females want to get to know you first.
18. maj 2025
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